Sex is a very important part of any relationship. Couples that have a good sex life are more likely to stay loyal to each other. Most of the time, when people cheat on their partners, it is due to lustful desires. Yes, your partner is less likely to cheat as long as you keep your relationship and sex life spontaneous and interesting. Make sure things are not monotonous or boring. If you are trying out something new, make sure your partner is aware and comfortable with your actions. With that being mentioned, here are some tips to help you spice up your sex life.
Make Each Other Feel Comfortable
One thing that people take for granted when it comes to sex is their partner’s comfort. You can only have wild and passionate sex when both of you are comfortable with around each other. The slightest feeling of shame or lack of confidence can make a potential night to remember to become a night you want to forget. To make your relationship comfortable, you can engage your partner in sex-based conversations and tell each other your sexual fantasies. Through such conversations, you will both know what to do and what to avoid.
As much as you want to make your spouse have a sexual experience worth remembering, you shouldn’t force things to happen. Make sure that anytime you are in the mood to have sex, your partner has similar feelings. This way, both of you will be in the right mindset and mood to make love. If only one of you happens to be in the mood for sex, be sure that the other person is less likely enjoying the moment. If this becomes a regular thing, your partner will likely be less interested in having sex with you.
Include Sex Toys
Sex toys are not for everyone, especially if you are not the freaky type. However, if you and your partner are looking to make your sex life more interesting, you can use a sex toy. For example, if your partner loves getting her clitoris rubbed during sex, you can use a vibrator on her clit to keep her stimulated as you continue stroking her.
Don’t Underestimate the Power of Complements
There’s something about complements and moans that helps boost sex drive. Make your partner feels special. Do not hold yourself back from expressing your feelings. Let your partner know that they satisfy you with every second you spend having sex. Also, make each other get used to having morning sex. Think about it; sex leaves you feeling relaxed, happy, and full of life, who wouldn’t want to start their day feeling like that?